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Who inherits: community vs. separate property
California is a community property state. Property acquired during marriage is generally community property; property you owned before marriage or received by gift or inheritance is generally separate property. Intestacy rules treat the two differently.
If you are married (or a registered domestic partner)
- Community and quasi-community property: all of it goes to your surviving spouse or registered domestic partner (Probate Code § 6401(a)–(b)).
- Separate property (§ 6401(c)):
- All to your spouse if you leave no children or other descendants, parents, siblings, or descendants of siblings.
- One-half to your spouse if you leave one child (or descendants of one deceased child), or no children but a parent or parents or their descendants.
- One-third to your spouse if you leave more than one child, or one child plus descendants of a deceased child.
The rest of the separate property passes to the other relatives under § 6402. Example: a San Diego widow’s second husband dies owning a condo he bought before their marriage, and he has two adult children. His wife receives one-third of the condo; his two children share two-thirds — likely leaving the surviving spouse as co-owner with stepchildren.
If you are not married
Under Probate Code § 6402, your estate passes in this order, with each level inheriting only if there is no one at the level before:
- Your children (and descendants of a deceased child)
- Your parents
- Your siblings (and descendants of deceased siblings)
- Your grandparents and their descendants (aunts, uncles, cousins)
- More remote relatives, including relatives of a predeceased spouse in some cases
If no relative can be found, the estate goes to the State of California (escheat, Probate Code § 6800).
Who is left out
- Unmarried partners, no matter how long you lived together, unless you are registered domestic partners.
- Stepchildren and foster children, except in limited circumstances (§ 6454).
- Friends and charities you meant to support.
What happens to your minor children
Without a will, you have not nominated a guardian. If both parents are gone, the court appoints a guardian of the person after considering the child’s best interests — and relatives may disagree about who it should be. Money a minor inherits generally must be managed through a court-supervised guardianship of the estate or another court-approved arrangement, and the child receives it outright at 18. A will (or a trust with a pour-over will) lets you name the guardian and decide when your children receive their inheritance.
Probate and who is in charge
If the estate exceeds the small-estate limit ($208,850 for deaths on or after April 1, 2025, Probate Code § 13100), someone must petition the San Diego County Superior Court to be appointed administrator. The law sets a priority list starting with the surviving spouse or domestic partner, then children, and so on (§ 8461). The estate pays statutory fees under §§ 10800 and 10810 — see How much does probate cost in California?. Smaller estates may use simplified procedures.
Three common San Diego scenarios
A young married couple with a toddler. They own their Mira Mesa condo as community property. If one spouse dies, the survivor generally receives the community property. But if both die together, their child inherits everything — managed through a court process until age 18, and with a court choosing the guardian. A will naming a guardian and a trust holding assets until a later age solves both problems.
A blended family. A husband owns a home he bought before his second marriage. Without a plan, his wife receives only a share of that separate property and becomes co-owner with his children from his first marriage. Many couples want something different — for example, letting the surviving spouse live in the home for life, then passing it to the children — and only a will or trust can provide that.
A single adult with a long-term partner. If they are not married or registered domestic partners, the partner inherits nothing under intestacy; the estate goes to the decedent’s children, parents or siblings.
Common myths
- “The state takes everything.” Rarely. The state receives an estate only when no relatives can be found.
- “My spouse gets it all.” Under intestacy, only community and quasi-community property passes entirely to a surviving spouse; separate property may be shared with other relatives.
- “Retirement accounts follow my will.” Accounts with beneficiary designations pass to the named beneficiary, with or without a will. If no beneficiary is named or alive, the account may fall into the estate.
- “A verbal promise counts.” California does not recognize oral wills.
How to avoid intestacy
- Sign a will — at minimum — naming your beneficiaries, executor and guardians.
- Consider a revocable living trust to also avoid probate and plan for incapacity.
- Review beneficiary designations on retirement accounts and life insurance.
- Add a durable power of attorney and advance health care directive — intestacy rules don’t help you while you are alive.
Frequently asked questions
Does my spouse automatically get everything in California?
Your spouse gets all community property, but not necessarily all separate property. If you have children, parents or siblings, they may share your separate property.
Do I need probate if my spouse and I owned our home as community property with right of survivorship?
Property held that way generally passes to the surviving spouse outside probate, though paperwork is still required to clear title.
Can a family member just take over the house?
No. Title must be transferred through probate or another legal procedure; until then, no one can sell or refinance it.
What if my loved one already died without a will?
An attorney can review the assets and family situation to find the simplest available procedure — sometimes full probate isn’t required.
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Schedule a free consultation Call (858) 208-8900Important information about this article
- General information only, not legal advice. This article provides general information about California law and is not legal advice.
- No attorney-client relationship. Reading this article, or contacting Law Offices of Irina Sherbak, APC through this website, by phone or by email, does not create an attorney-client relationship.
- Laws change. Laws, dollar thresholds and court fees change and their application varies with the facts of each situation. This article is current as of October 28, 2026.
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